Soft and chewy oatmeal raisin cookie on top of a creamy cheesecake bar! These Oatmeal Raisin Cookie Cheesecake Bars are delicious, comfort food treats!
My kids are growing up. Nothing hits me harder with this thought than the end of a school year. Sometimes the beginning of a new school year, but that’s usually filled with more excitement and anticipation, while the end of the year is so final.
With two kids now in high school, one in junior high and one already having left the nest, my role as “mom” is evolving.
It used to be more about taking care of the physical well being. Of course the nurturing and loving on them was there, always, but the teaching them to tie their shoes, learn their ABC’S, and brush their teeth was what seemed like a never-ending list of to-dos. As they get older, making sure they learn how to do laundry and learn to cook has been the priority.
But through it all, we are given these humans, and in 18 years (if we are lucky enough) we have to teach them how to survive on their own. And my role as mom has evolved from being the physical provider to the emotional teacher. Have I taught them what’s TRULY important? How to love another person without hurting them. How to put others first. How to be faithful to God.
Two decades of my life have been spent on this roller coaster of parenting, and yet with the internet there are constant cases of mom’s insulting and judging each other. It’s so sad. We were not given a handbook when we walked out of the hospital 23 hours after giving birth to our first child. There was no list of things you should do, and shouldn’t do. No schedules were given, no guidebooks were read. Instead, I reached inside and thought about MY mom and what I have learned through the years on how to be a mother.
What I will say is that it’s taken me nearly twenty years, but, I have learned HOW to be a mom, how to be a BETTER mom, and how to accept not being the BEST mom.
And I hope my kids will one day think of me as a role model and try to be better than me!
With that, I am pulling out my selfish mom card, and making one of my favorite treats. Because what I have learned through the years, is it’s not always about the kids, nor should it be. Sometimes, us moms need to have a treat that we don’t need to share.
But sometimes, I take that favorite cookie of mine and create something even more decadent. Something that says, YOU DESERVE THIS, enjoy.
Creating cheesecake bars is one of my favorite passions right now for dessert. The delicious crust with the creamy cheesecake filling is perfect on it’s own. But then I take it a step further by adding my favorite cookie dough to the top (remember these chocolate chip cheesecake bars, where the obsession first began?).
If you feel like you can’t handle the raisins in this cookie, go ahead, add the chocolate chips. It will still be amazing, I promise!
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Love Cheesecake Bars? Here are a few of my favorites….
Pecan Pie Cheesecake Bars: the flavor of a pecan pie on top of a creamy, delicious cheesecake bar!
Lemon Cheesecake Bar: sweet lemon sugar cookie on a cheesecake bar. WONDERFUL.
Peanut Butter Cheesecake Bar: Peanut butter cookie with Reese’s cups. Seriously, match made in heaven!
If you love today’s cheesecake bar recipe, here are a few favorites from my friends:
- Reese’s Cheesecake Brownie Bars from Inside BruCrew Life
- Lemon Cheesecake Bars from Garnish with Lemon
- White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake Bars from A Treats Affair
- Cheesecake Brownies from My Baking Addiction